Life is something that needs constant effort to prove our worth. Some are born with good fortune that doesn’t want to struggle for anything in their life. But some have to work every day because of their family condition or could stand on their legs. At some point in life, we thought i hate my life and what should we do with our life? Steve Jobs has been known as an iconic figure for the establishment of Apple as the biggest company. However, it is extremely shocking to know that the $2 billion company with over 4000 employees has been started with only two persons in a garage. Bill Gates is the great entrepreneur who has established Microsoft as the biggest software company is a dropout student from Harvard. Albert Einstein is a great scientist and genius personality suffered a lot of failures in their childhood. He didn’t even speak fluently till the age of nine and was expelled from school.
Many great personalities have risen from zero and marked history with their success. Life constant failures make us feel that we are not capable of doing anything in life. We compare our life with others. No one is born perfect, everyone has flaws like our great personality. But for every night, there’s a brighter day.
If you’re finding an answer to what you do with your life, be relax and figure out what’s lacking and work on your skills. When life hits you hard, hit it back harder. There is something you can work on before hating your life.
Connect with the people
Call your friends, cousins, family and interact with them. Listen to their opinions, stories of their hard work, life struggles, and barriers in life. While listening to their stories, opinions, you realized your struggles are nothing in front of them. Sometimes we only need to listen to the other perspective.
You’ll be surprised at how much you learn and get the insight look about their flaws. You’re will come to know how much effort they put in to be in that position they are in today. Listening to other dreams, success stories, passions drive motivation and hopes in your life that you have a long way to go.
Listen to yourself
Sometimes you need only you. Be relax and sit for a while. Try to figure out what you want to do in your life. Stop comparing your life to others. Don’t force yourself to something that doesn’t make you happy. Talk to yourself and figure out what your love, what you’re good at, what makes you interest, what can you get paid, etc. Set small goals and try to achieve them every day helps you to reach your main goal. Look at the insight and understand what’s the reasons you lack behind in achieving your goal. Work out on your flaws and do for your best one more time.
Get out from your comfort zone
Leaning on the couch doesn’t make you pay anything. So start exploring yourself, what are you want to do to get this job. Procrastination seems interesting with the idea of a thought of our successful future. But it leads you nothing when you don’t put your efforts. Try to learn new things if it suits your interests and skills.
There is one saying from the movie Dear Zindagi, ” Albert Einstein ne kaha tha, pagal woh hota hai joh roz roz same kaam karta hai, magar chahta hai ki nateeja alag ho”. It is better to take a step out of your comfort zone and try new things to open for new opportunities in life. Participate in events and take internship or works under the person who get to specialize and sharpen your skills.
Distance yourself from negative people or negative vibes
Pay attention to how people make you feel, some neuroscience research suggests being around negative people rewires your brain to be more depressed and anxious.
This means that when you’re around negative people, your brain is going to pull you backward rather than forward. Switch from the people that created negative vibes around you and try to connect with people who motivate or inspire you. Avoid people who make your self-confidence or self-esteem down.
Accept the failing
One of the most important senses most humans possess is pain. Without this failure, they would not learn how to succeed. Through failure, you will get to know yourself better and you will learn from your mistakes. Failures make us rethink, reconsider, and find new ways and strategies to achieve our goals.
So It’s okay to fail. There is some great personality as we already discussed above failed in some points of their life. But they never give up. There is a quote by great actor Akshay Kumar,” WHEN YOU TASTE SUPER-SUCCESS AFTER TASTING SUPER-FAILURE, THERE IS A HUGE RELIEF“. They learn from their flaws and achieve what they wanted in their life.
Be patient and compose
Patience is the key to success. There is a quote by Amitabh Bachchan said, “THAT WHICH LAST LONG IS NOT EASILY GOT, THAT WHICH EASILY GOT, DOES NOT LAST LONG“.
In the initial years of his career, he has given 9 flops continuously where he played small roles and also did voice-overs. But now people know him as Shahenshah of Bollywood, Big B, etc. He didn’t become a star overnight but they trust their instincts and know their self-worth that someday their hard work will pay off. So be patient, your hard work will pay off someday.